I’m feeling pretty lousey after I just had an argument with my ex over him still loving his other ex girlfriend. He says that the reason why we broke up is because I was too childish, I never had fun and I take things too serious. He now makes me feel 10000000x smaller than I am and makes me feel so bad about myself I often feel depressed.I confronted him and said to him that all he does is kiss me and meet with me when he’s bored and needs love. I don’t know if any of this makes sense to you, but I’d love for you to make me feel even the smallest bit better about myself.

I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible and how it can actually ache in places you didn’t know you had inside you. It doesn’t matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends… you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. and sometimes you can even convince yourself that he’ll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you’ll go somewhere new. and you’ll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. and little pieces of your soul will finally come back. and all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade. Dear whoever is reading this. Guess what? You are loved. No, don’t nod you head and say you’re not. You are. You are lovely and you are loved. End of story.
-JaneDoe

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