There is this boy let’s called him Jack, and he is known as a player. He was seeing one of my best friends called Katie, and they were seeing each other for 2 months. We all went out non a friday, and I noticed he wasn’t acting normal with her. And when I came online that night he told me he didn’t like her anymore and he then dumped her on the sunday. It was from there I started to like him and it became deeper and deeper. But then one of my other best friends called Lucy started fancying him too. She was obsessed, unlike me who kept it inside. And through the couple of days she’d flirt endlessly with me while I kept my feelings inside. Then on the Wednesday he confessed he had no feelings for Lucy but for me, then kissed me. And it’s been 2 weeks since that day and we kiss everyday and we act like girlfriend and boyfriend but we can’t because of Lucy and Katie. I feel guilty going behind my friends but I’m slowly falling in love with him. Neither of my friends knows about us two and we’re trying to keep it secret. Am I a bad friend? I don’t really know what to do, it might not seem like a problem but I feel it is :/

You have to talk to your friends about it. The truth is going to come out sooner or later and it’s better they hear it from you. After hearing their input in the situation, maybe they’ll understand that you have VERY strong feelings for him, but you respect their feelings too and if they really want you to stop, then let me tell you, stop. You’re friends are always going to be there, but boys, well they come and go. You’re friends are the people who will never let you down, and boys are opposite. I always say put friends before boys. “Chicks before dicks”
-JaneDoe

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